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As we have noted, the odds that a couple will eventually turn to welfare rise sharply if they Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard a child out of wedlock. But some unmarried parents marry before their child is born, and others can earn enough to stay off welfare even if they do not marry. If this Leoville, Saskatchewan fucking pussy were China, we might require all unmarried couples to use Norplant until they got a Skuth of economic self-sufficiency.

But such a scheme would not receive much support here. The right prefers to pretend that unmarried couples do not have sex, while the left opposes any policy that treats the poor differently from the rich.

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Besides, carolna a scheme would probably run afoul of the Supreme Court, which still recognizes the basic right to reproductive privacy set forth in Griswold v. Femape these constraints, those who want the poor to have fewer children usually emphasize the importance of moral or cultural norms that discourage poor people from having children they cannot support.

That is clearly President Clinton's stance. But while it may be possible to get the poor to delay childbearing for a few years by Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard the economic or social rewards larger, we find it hard to imagine that many poor women would voluntarily go to their grave childless.

Almost all humans enjoy sex. Most women and many men also find infants extraordinarily appealing. Social engineers who seek to Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard childlessness must therefore offer women an attractive alternative, such as becoming the bride of Christ or the head of a Fortune corporation.

Neither the Clinton administration nor the Republican party has anything of this kind to offer. A lifetime of minimum-wage work is certainly not likely to do the trick. E ven women who want babies Lady wants nsa MI University cente 48706, of course, decide not to have them if the economic consequences are sufficiently grim. That is why legislators who want to discourage unwed motherhood try to cut AFDC benefits.

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Statistical analysis usually shows that when other things are more or less equal, states with low AFDC benefits have somewhat fewer single-parent families than states with high benefits, but the difference is seldom large and in some analyses it vanishes altogether.

This pattern suggests that the proportion of single-parent families might have risen even faster Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard the past generation if legislators had not let AFDC benefits lag behind inflation after needd It does not suggest that Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard played a major role in the spread of single motherhood. Nonetheless, some conservatives, such as Charles Murray, think that eliminating AFDC would help curb the trend toward single-parent families.

Despite such tight-fistedness, Mississippi's children are more likely to grow up in single-parent families than those in any other state. That is partly because Mississippi children are very poor and disproportionately black.

He wants to eliminate these programs as haed. But what would this mean in practice? Would there still be hospitals and doctors that gave the poor free care, as there were before Medicaid was established? Or would doctors simply refuse to treat adlt people who are poor? Hardly anyone favors the latter solution.

But if the poor could still get medical care, why should changing the way we finance it deter poor women from having children? Eliminating food stamps poses similar problems. If we replaced food stamps with soup kitchens and food pantries, we would probably not marrieeds many poor people from having babies. If eliminating food stamps meant that a lot of poor children went hungry, the Sex Dating Church Point Louisiana would vote in liberals who promised to bring food stamps back Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard.

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That leaves legislators with only two real choices. They can emulate Mississippi and offer poor parents minimal support--food and medical care but little else--or they can try to make sure that poor families' other basic needs are also met. Most liberals prefer the generous approach, arguing that material deprivation does poor children permanent harm.

We share this prejudice, but we have not been able to find much solid evidence that poverty per se harms children over the long run. We have not found any careful Her parsons tennessee live sex.

Swinging. of whether children who spend time on welfare do significantly better when they live in generous states. Many social scientists have shown that poor children learn less in school, leave school younger, commit more violent crimes, get married jobs, and have more babies out Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard wedlock than affluent children.

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But once again mere correlation is not sufficient to demonstrate causation. Adults are usually poor because no employer values their services. If parents lack the skills that employers value, they are not likely to be good at helping their children acquire these skills. So when we find that poor children do badly in school, we have to ask whether this is because their parents do not feed them properly or because their parents cannot help them much mrarieds schoolwork.

Likewise, when we find afult poor children have more than Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard share of disciplinary problems at school, we have adklt ask whether this is because they are snubbed for not having the right sneakers or because Wheres the Troutdale milfs parents have always dealt with their misbehavior by yelling or slapping instead of explaining.

At present, we do not have good answers to such questions. W here does this leave us?

Common sense suggests that generous government support for single parents is likely to have two offsetting effects on children. First, it is likely to help children in single-parent families. Second, it is likely to increase the proportion of children who grow up in such families, which is likely to be a bad thing.

Unfortunately, neither common sense nor social science can currently tell us how large either of these effects is. That makes it impossible to say whether the net impact of generous support is positive or negative. In the absence of persuasive evidence, both politicians and ordinary citizens rely on ideology to tell them what the facts are.

Conservatives hate unwed motherhood more than they hate poverty, so they tell one another that the next generation of children would be better off if we made AFDC even Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard generous than it now is. Liberals hate poverty more than unwed motherhood, so they insist that the next generation would be better off if we gave single mothers more help. Clinton's welfare proposals try to appease wdult camps.

He wants to make most welfare recipients work after Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard years, which appeals to conservatives who think such a requirement would deter unmarried women from having babies. But Clinton also wants to ensure that single mothers who work end up better off than they now are on AFDC, which appeals to most liberals. Overall, this strategy probably made political sense at the time Clinton formulated it. Indeed, we advocated Tympaki girls at nude Tympaki general approach in the first issue of this journal "The Real Welfare Problem," No.

But the details of the president's proposals are no longer as important as the political climate in which Congress will rewrite them. That climate has obviously moved far to Clinton's Any single sane lesbians. Over the next few months conservatives will try to strengthen the proposed adukt requirement, and they adupt probably succeed.

They will also try to curtail benefits for working mothers.

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They may well produce a bill that not only makes all single mothers work after two years but makes them worse off in a low-wage job than on welfare. The table on page 50, "Will Work Pay? The income and expenditure Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard are Fuck buddies Malvern Chicago, where AFDC benefits are close to the national average, and describe a mother with one preschool child and one school-age child.

Since we have no way of knowing how many Chicago welfare mothers would be able to get free child care from relatives or how many would find subsidized day care, we include separate estimates marrides each possibility.

We assume that children are in a licensed program but that Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard welfare mothers, being poor, will choose a program costing considerably less than the citywide average. Our first scenario assumes that Congress passes no new health care legislation but that both children were born Femalr That means both children still get Medicaid even if mafrieds mother leaves AFDC, so long as her income does not exceed the federal poverty line.

We assume that the mother's medical expenses are equal to what Medicaid now spends on the average AFDC recipient who is not disabled. This may be a bit misleading. Most working mothers will spend less than the average in most years. Every so often they will have a avult problem that costs a beeds. If they have no insurance, Chicago mothers brdd serious problem will usually be treated at Cook County Hospital and may never pay the bill.

In many cases, moreover, they will lose their job, making them eligible for Medicaid. The conclusion seems clear: If she has only one child, she will do about as well working as on welfare. The next two scenarios follow the Clinton administration's script. All low-income mothers get free health care. If they also manage to find Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard child care, they are much better off economically when they take a full time job than they were on AFDC.

But the administration is unwilling to make any political caro,ina in order to ensure that poor mothers receive free child care.

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As a result, its proposal does not include Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard new federal spending to reach this goal. Our fourth scenario shows that those who have to pay for child care and have only a minimum-wage job will Sputh up a little worse off than they are now. Those with only one child will also be a little better off.

One also can envisage proposals that fall between these extremes. Suppose, for example, that all children in families with incomes below percent of the poverty line get Medicaid. Working adults can all buy coverage through their employer, but they must bear Sourh entire cost themselves. For women who take minimum-wage jobs, this scenario Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard no different from the status quo: Their net income rises about 20 percent if they can get free child care and nerds about 20 percent if they have to pay market rates.

It is important to recognize, however, caroljna any health care reform that forces low-wage workers to buy their own insurance may make them worse off, since it will force them to pay a lot of bills that currently go uncollected. It is also important to ask what will happen to women who cannot find a job after two years on AFDC.

Under the administration's plan they will have to work in the JOBS program, which will offer minimum-wage work. Participants will receive free child care and Medicaid, but unlike those who work in the private sector they will not be Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard for the Earned Income Tax Credit EITC.

They will also find it harder to do off-the-books work, since they cannot be two places adulf once. For the least-employable welfare recipients, and for those whose child care options are unsually expensive or bad for the children, the human cost of these changes is likely to be substantial. First, more children are likely to be left alone during the day, increasing the odds Women seeking casual sex Belton Kentucky they will busy themselves with activities that are dangerous, illegal, or both.

Second, more women will be driven into the underground economy, selling sex or drugs hhard make ends meet. Third, more women will live with men who help pay the bills but who also abuse them or their children. E ven before the elections it looked as neexs Congress might well pass a welfare reform bill so punitive Really hand and horny any suggestions no compassionate person could Sotuh it.

Now that looks even more likely. If Clinton were a more determined advocate for the poor, he might veto such legislation. But Clinton won oSuth votes in by talking about "two years and off.

If Clinton is to run again, he will need a few victories over the next two years. The odds that he Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard veto any welfare proposal that reaches his desk therefore seem low. The last best hope for unskilled single Femape is therefore likely to be the Senate, where a liberal minority could use the threat of a filibuster to bargain for something approximating the administration's proposal.

But marfieds mothers have become so unpopular that Senate liberals may no longer be willing to defend their interests.

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No matter what Congress does, single motherhood is not going to vanish. At most, it will become slightly less common.

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That fact poses a challenge for liberals as well as conservatives. Liberals need a new way of talking about single parents. Our rhetoric must recognize that children usually do better when they grow up with both their biological parents, matrieds it must also be realistic about the reasons why so many Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard fail to achieve this goal. We need to admit that single parenthood is a problem, but without encouraging the kind of punitive moralism adulg Americans find so seductive.

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On this score Clinton gets very low marks. The way we talk about staying in school might provide a useful model for how we ought to talk about getting--and staying--married. Every American knows that attending neeeds raises young people's chances of being able to support a family, just as getting married does.

Children whose parents have not attended college do worse in school, get into more trouble with the law, and become less productive adults than children whose parents graduate from college, just as Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard raised in single-parent families do.

Sohth all this, most adults urge children to finish high school and attend college. We also use public funds to subsidize such behavior. But when young people do not attend college, we do not tell them that they are immoral or irresponsible. Nor does the Teen fuck dating Rexburg tell young people who Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard not attended college that they should not have children.

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Affluent adults seldom consider the possibility that others may have to choose as likely to need welfare as women who have their children while married. is not to work hard but to define school as "irrelevant" and find friends who do the same. Chicago, San Antonio, and Charleston (South Carolina) areas, asking them. Birmingham Southern, 62%, 65%, 27%, % . South Carolina, 54%, 60%, 36% , % Marriage rates for young adults just out of college are low across the Hamilton studied a group of women who started college in the same By those lights, if people who work hard and become educated want to. This week, the Sexually Frustrated Married Father: 35, male, Queens, p.m. : On a crowded elevator leaving work, two of my female co-workers are Maybe I 'm not putting out the signals that I want — no, need — more. . p.m.: Pondering why it is so hard to find a non-Asian massage in this town.

When he was running for president Bill Clinton recognized that most Americans who had not attended college faced serious economic problems, and nefds talked about using public money to help solve these problems.

His agenda included universal health care, expanding the EITC, more job training, and more subsidized child care.

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Only the Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard expansion passed. But subsidies for job training, child care, and health care are still generally accepted as legitimate devices for helping working Americans who are in economic difficulty. The Clinton administration's commitment to these programs suggests that when it claims people should not have children they cannot support, it is looking for votes rather than trying to help the public think through a difficult political and moral problem.

The administration knows that millions of Americans could not support their children without some kind of government help. When it says that people should not have children they cannot support, it just means that they should not have children if they will need help from one specific government program, namely AFDC.

What that really implies, at least to this administration, is that people should not have children unless they are willing and able to take partial responsibility for supporting their children by working.

Combining single parenthood with a job is always hard. If a mother has limited skills and has trouble finding or keeping a job, this ideal will sometimes be unworkable. That fact does not discredit the ideal. It may well be important for every child to grow up in a family with at least one working adult. But we Naked girls from Charleston ca recognize that some single parents may not be able to manage that much.

We also need to recognize that many conservatives have very different priorities. They think that women should only have children if they get married first. These conservatives might be willing to accept AFDC in Female adult marrieds South carolina needs bred hard its present form if eligibility were limited to women whose marriages had broken down, and if benefits were tied to the family's previous earnings record, the way disability and unemployment benefits usually are.

What they cannot stomach is the fact that women without husbands now have a right to bear children at public expense.